Relational Patterns Reflection
Collaborative Assessment Module

Relational Patterns Reflection

A structured, plain-language conversation tool for exploring long-standing ways of coping, relating, protecting, and making sense of the world. Built for collaborative use with a clinician. This is not a stand-alone diagnosis.
How to use this well
Move slowly. Ask what each pattern protects, when it first became necessary, and what it costs now. Read scores as signals for discussion, not verdicts. Trauma, neurodivergence, mood states, substance effects, culture, and environment all matter.
Rating scale
0 = Not really me
1 = A little
2 = Sometimes
3 = Often
4 = Very often
1 · Core pattern check
2 · Style family
3 · Pattern reflection
4 · Summary

Gate 1 · Core pattern check

This first gate checks whether there seems to be a broad, long-standing pattern in four core areas: sense of self, direction, understanding other people, and closeness. It is meant to screen for whether deeper personality-pattern assessment is worth doing at all.

Gate 2 · Which style family should we explore?

The module estimates which broad style family may be most relevant, then lets you confirm or switch manually. This improves the flow while keeping clinician judgment in the loop.

Gate 3 · Pattern reflection

Shared reflection summary

Clinician guide